A community, A society, name it… formally defined as a group, an aggregate or even an organization of people living together for a common purpose or goal. Well, life is not written in a book as say what an encyclopedia could define a society. Unsurprisingly still, not everyone in a society has a common goal, this has created the most challenging social problems any “ordinary” man faces day-to-day in life. Many call it FAILURE TO FIT IN, others call it INFERIORITY COMPLEX name it…

Currently I live and study in a society, a university, where student power, influence, majors basically on the nature of the course a student is studying, naturally some students think they are lower than the others because of the “small” weight load their course offers them in comparison to the other students. A worse degree of social problems could be failure to fit in because certain people don’t see particular “values” they’d imagine and probably want you to have, forcing one both intentionally or involuntarily not to relate closely with you.

Dear friends and readers, fitting in should never be a worry especially if you already know the people around you, be yourself you are your own brand, I am who I am today because I learnt to see greater in my self than what’s in others. You’re probably a greater achiever than you imagine yourself to be. Be the rectangle and choose to make yourself a box where you can pack all sorts of things, as big a car. Let another be the circle where only he or she can choose to be round and limited to only round objects, otherwise a box to can pack a round object… OTHERWISE LETS NOT BE THE RECTANGULAR CIRCLES, TENANTS IN OUR OWN RENTALS, VALUE YOUR SMALL ACHIEVEMENTS EVEN WHEN OTHERS DON’T SEE IT, IT’S YOUR LIFE, CHOOSE TO LIVE THE GOOD LIVE.



A B C D R S T…

Language, speech, words…. from the time of birth, a certain vocal vibration creates a tactical motive in the daily life of a fresh seed, the baby. As this fresh seed begins to sprout it’s leaves, the branches name it, wonders, “what is this sort of thing which only comes out at the effortless manipulation of something in my neck?”

Fast forward to the future, grown and all well learnt, a language is learnt, and one learns to speak. How something effortless suddenly became so important, day by day as an infant, one decides to learn this mystery, language and speech. The once great desire to learn this speech then becomes a far distant memory with man now learning to articulate all forms of language and speech, something that defines an “Instinct

Words!! A product of this language, are loved when they bring merry, hated when they bring tears. “Oh how the mind reminds me of these invisible instinctive principles I once treasured when i was little as i learnt to speak” I recalled a friend saying that. In nursery education, a pupil is taught to touch one’s lips with two of his or her fingers…. I have grown to learn that meant one thing, “sometimes a little silence makes a big difference”

It’s now become a daily chocolate to the tongue to keep saying “the tongue creates and destroys” but it must truly take extra effort to understand that saying. It takes extra effort of one’s conscious mind to try and notice how much another person is going through in life whether through informed or uninformed consent. It’s in my greatest pain that i cry, let’s watch what we tell others, the words we say unto them will surely build castles or create war. You could become somebody’s hero tomorrow because you believed in him through the words you told him. On the contrary you could become a bad prayer topic in somebody’s daily communication with God.

Only you knows your daily prayer communication to God, learn from it’s results…He to is a great talker but as well a great listener, and very importantly, a great action taker….


Knowledge speaks, wisdom listens..Think again!!

The pre-mentioned statement above does not at all simply signify that “knowledge is therefore minor to wisdom“. I personally don’t believe that. We are starting to be convinced by many that it is indeed true, but away from this stereotyped mindset.

High time we put some respect and effort in this “thing” we call knowledge. By having respect i mean putting effort in trying to acquire it, not despising it because you feel you are wise enough therefore. I have liked to convince myself that “out of knowledge, wisdom was born”..I mean wisdom itself can be having “knowledge of what’s wise”

A certain story described a “leader as a reader”, a leader who has no knowledge of present, past can never improve the people around him because he cannot improve himself. We all have our levels of inspiration, the inspirational wisdom you give to people is because of the knowledge you acquired first that bore that wisdom..

Knowledge surely does shape you, your thoughts, it humbles, it seeks, it will lead you. That’s then how you’ll know when wisdom comes in.

Therefore if you aspire to be a doctor, seek that knowledge that’ll make you a skilled doctor, read, if it’s a leader, inspire others with your wise words, you must therefore be a good reader


A cup full of love!! With sugar of Hope!!

In the Bible, Romans 13 especially verses 8-11 emphasize about love. This next write-up is not an ordinary love-written piece of love, love, love, love and more love!!! Why???

Personally I cannot look through someone’s heart or even life to see what someone may be going through, the world has greater than 7 billion people.. But that only gives me an opportunity to exercise Love for another

I have this little one year old nephew. Naturally, one year olds cannot speak much, articulation is so difficult for them, but all they do is make noise, cry, smile, laugh and you know-they be very jolly. I learn one thing from this, despite however much any normal human being could be, he or she needs to be loved. Look he is a one year old that can’t even say his own name yet but i still love him alot, I could carry him around all day if I could… why?? Because I also have hope in my heart, he still has a life ahead of him, a life of greatness amen!

This therefore pushes me to tell my fellow older people, let’s learn from this, let’s fight to ditch initial judgement based on one act… Love is seeing someone as normal despite “the abnormal” in that person because you have hope that he or she can change and enjoy the later fruit of life…

The point is let’s be slow in judgement and a few times in our actions, we serve a God who sees beyond what our eyes see, the person we desert because ge does drugs let me say could be the same person who prays every night to God for deliverance…. Only God could see our struggles when no one else can’t

To me love is therefore understanding one’s problem, and hope is doing something credible about it, e.g. praying for him, being nice to him etc. Bravery not to yield in that person’s act is exercising your faith in God. That person may eventually see the love of God for Him through you all because you exercised diligence, humility, and most especially love.

Therefore we all need love… You may only understand the love of God for you maybe only if you made love manifest in others….. If you gave to the needy, until you see that person cry even after you gave to that person, is probably when you understand what true love really is.

Reasons why I admire psycholigists, their approach to a problem is one that is a calm, tender one towards the issue. Let’s be like the psychologist

1 Thessalonians 5:14

1 Thessalonians 3:13 and 15

Christmas Blessings to you all

Jesophat Kafuko

Look, think, recall, Back to the Roots!!!


The human mind circuitry can records billions of information mostly photographically, naturally we recall according to certain patterns that occured at that particular moment of time. Quite cool!! But there’s a common weakness, failure of us to recall what we told oneself at that sad time or that meditative period when you felt you needed some inspiration from within.

All this brings up something called “Judgement“…why?? Fact is we all feel things different, but once you forget who you are, you’ll become judgemental on others. I ‘ve always had this enormous desire to become a great doctor, any normal human being knows what it takes to be one, this leads me to think that certain people have probably stronger passions or love for certain things therefore this changes how someone does things, preferably one becomes more hardworking, works with value and dignity name it!!

In my view, being a doctor you need to build knowledge and trust within yourself that you can do it, but I recall constant statements like “He thinks he knows it all” others say “He thinks he trusts himself too much”….This keeps me wondering, are people having smooth life journeys

Lucky Dube once sang” I am going back to my roots, reggae music is all i need” Fellow humans let’s not forget why we are where we are today.

You’ve struggled enough in life not to forget your one goal, achievement, seeing another person succeeding in the right manner doesn’t mean you should become judgemental, rather tap the blessing or have it your way in a rightful manner


Jesophat Kafuko